CHILD CUSTODY TIPS FOR PARENTS

DEALING WITH CUSTODY MATTERS

Navigating the waters of divorce/separation are tough, so we’ve compiled a list of tips for parents to help you through it. If you are a parent considering divorce/separation, or if you are already involved in the process, you are probably wondering about the negative side effects it would have on your child/children. Separation or divorce is never easy, but it can be especially difficult when there are children involved. Divorce/separation often generates conflict between the parents, leaving the children ‘caught’ in the middle of the two people they love most. Many parents wonder if their divorce/separation will negatively affect their children.

The emotional trauma a child/children experience of feeling like they are in a tug of war, with them as the rope, is a huge weight to bear in itself – not to mention feeling burdened by their parents’ emotions and not being able to express their own leads to regression, shutting down or acting out. However, taking a few steps during this stressful time might make your child/children happier and your time spent in Court shorter. Like all aspects of divorce, (such as property, financial division and maintenance), child custody and visitation rights are decided either by an agreement between the parents (aided by the assistance of family lawyers) or by the Court.

Please see below for our ten child custody tips for parents on how to protect your children’s’ best interests during a child custody dispute;

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    TEN CHILD CUSTODY TIPS FOR PARENTS

    GET A CHILD CUSTODY LAWYER

    Find an excellent Child Custody Attorney. Joselowitz & Andrews Attorneys will explain the process to you and will provide you tips on how to improve your chances of winning custody.

    TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN

    To keep your children as emotionally healthy as possible you need to talk to them. Let them know that this isn’t their fault and the divorce has nothing to do with them.

    DON'T BADMOUTH YOUR EX

    Even if your ex is being difficult and challenging your parental rights, talking badly about them will reflect poorly on you and will impact your children negatively.

    BE CIVIL TO YOUR EX SPOUSE

    Don’t fight with your ex in front of your children. Remaining calm, polite and level-headed will ultimately work in your favour and it reduces the emotional toll on your children.

    ALWAYS FOLLOW THE LAW

    If a judge overseas your child custody case he/she will look at all factors – including the criminal history of both parents. Signs of impulsivity and lack of judgment will act against you.

    GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA

    Be careful what you post on social media. Your posts can be used against you, either as evidence for a foul temper or poor habits – both suggest an unfit parent.

    FOLLOW ORDERS

    Violating the court’s rules, even temporary ones will demonstrate to the judge that you have very little respect for the court and he/she will likely rule against you.

    COLLECT EVIDENCE

    Child custody battles can turn into he said/she said situations. Try to provide evidence that you are a good parent; either through photographs or testimonials.

    ASSESS YOUR FLAWS

    No one is perfect. Assess any flaws you may have and remedy them as best you can. Making an effort to improve for the sake of your kids shows signs of a fit parent.

    DRESS APPROPRIATELY

    If your child custody battle goes to court it is essential to appear put-together and responsible. This shows the court that you demonstrate good judgment and thoughtfulness.

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    Our “Ten Tips For Parents” is merely a guide. If you are facing a Child Custody battle, make sure that you have the very best Legal representation. At Joselowitz and Andrews Attorneys, we understand the stress you are experiencing and with our Legal knowledge and Family Law experience we can help you get the results you wish to achieve. We will take care of the Legal nitty-gritty leaving you to focus on your children’s happiness – and your own! Speak to one of our Family lawyers or book an appointment so we can review your case.

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